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Unlocked

Embrace Your Greatness, Find the Flow, Discover Success

by George Mumford

|HARPERONE©2023·240 pages

George Mumford is an incredibly humble, Heroically wise human being who beautifully embodies the wisdom he shares. This is the second Note we’ve done on one of his great books. The first was on The Mindful Athlete: Secrets to Pure Performance. As we discussed in that Note, George was Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant’s mindfulness coach. Phil Jackson brought him in to help take the Chicago Bulls to the next level then did it again when he was coaching the Los Angeles Lakers. As per the introduction, this book is all about how to “unlock” your inner greatness. It’s fantastic. It’s packed with Big Ideas and I’m excited to share a handful of my favorites so let’s jump straight in.


Big Ideas

“How can we move from bracing for failure to waiting for fulfillment? Is there any other question as significant for our performance or our happiness?

I’ve been around greatness all my life. I roomed with basketball great Dr. J (Julius Erving) in college, and I’ve worked with the elite of elite athletes, including Michael Jordan, Scottie Pippen, Kobe Bryant, and Shaquille O’Neal. There is no doubt these athletes were tremendously gifted, loaded with talent. But what I’ve learned from my association with them is that natural ability wasn’t what made them great. What made them so exceptional was that they were what I call unlocked—they were in close touch with that a part of themselves that was most truly who they were. That is what allowed them to develop their potential in the way they did.

Greatness can be discovered in each and every one of us. It’s not just the Kobes of the world; I’ve seen that greatness emerge in men convicted of murder serving consecutive life sentences in prison. This potential is not a euphemistic, feel-good fantasy. It is real and tangible and attainable for all.

I know this from working with everyone from elite athletes and powerful CEOs to those pushed to the margins of society. I also know this from the arc of my own life. I’m almost forty years into recovery from alcoholism, and heroin addiction. My life changed through prayer and meditation and through service. I dedicated myself to working with people from Yale to jail, from locker rooms to boardrooms. I know that in order to keep learning and growing and expanding, I have to teach. That’s what I’m doing in these pages.

My mission has been to help anyone in any place at any time unlock the greatness within them. The greatness within is why we are alive. It is what we have to offer the world.”

~ George Mumford from Unlocked

I love George Mumford.

He’s an incredibly humble, Heroically wise human being who beautifully embodies the wisdom he shares.

This is the second Note we’ve done on one of his great books. The first was on The Mindful Athlete: Secrets to Pure Performance.

As we discussed in that Note, George was Michael Jordan and Kobe Bryant’s mindfulness coach. Phil Jackson brought him in to help take the Chicago Bulls to the next level then did it again when he was coaching the Los Angeles Lakers.

As per the introduction, this book is all about how to “unlock” your inner greatness. It’s fantastic. Get a copy here.

It’s packed with Big Ideas and I’m excited to share a handful of my favorites so let’s jump straight in.

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This, I believe, is the great Western truth: that each of us is a completely unique creature and that, if we are ever to give any gift to the world, it will have to come out of our own experience and fulfillment of our own potentialities, not someone else’s.
Joseph Campbell
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The Hero’s Journey

“Joseph Campbell, the enormously influential author of The Hero with a Thousand Faces, brilliantly illuminated the archetypal hero’s journey, which to one degree or another we are all on. The hero sets out from his homeland to slay the dragon, to save the kingdom and win the princess. Campbell’s point, extrapolating from Jungian psychology, is that we all need to confront and, in one sense or another, slay our dragons, conquer the cave of darkness inside us where our fears and delusions live, before we can return home with hard-won insight, wisdom, and self-knowledge and take our rightful place. Only after this kind of painful and perilous confrontation will we truly have something to offer, to contribute to the world. That is what’s most significant. Not just that you know yourself by confronting your dragons, but that through doing so you are able to help others, to make a difference.

This is not a once-and-for-all process. It is something that never stops. Imagine yourself as a phoenix, rising from the ashes of the dragon that has blasted you with fiery breath. You don’t rise from the ashes complete and fully realized, your phoenix plumage all shimmering and aglow. No. You have to keep evolving. Part of being unlocked is that it's not a onetime deal. It never really ends.”

That’s from an early chapter called “Hitting Bottom” in which George shares his challenges with alcoholism and heroin addictions.

The Shunryu Suzuki quote at the beginning captures the theme of the chapter well.

Suzuki tells us: “Hell is not punishment, it’s training.”

As we’ve discussed many times, Joseph Campbell is one of my all-time favorite Heroes and Guides. He’s staring at me right now from my office wall as I type this.

Every morning he comes to life in my meditation and reminds me that “WE TRAIN HEROES!!”

In The Hero with a Thousand Faces, Campbell tells us: “The modern hero, the modern individual who dares to heed the call and seek the mansion of that presence with whom it is our whole destiny to be atoned, cannot, indeed must not, wait for his community to cast off its slough of pride, fear, rationalized avarice, and sanctified misunderstanding. ‘Live,’ Nietzsche says, ‘as though the day were here.’ It is not society that is to guide and save the creative hero, but precisely the reverse. And so every one of us shares the supreme ordeal—carries the cross of the redeemer—not in the bright moments of his tribe’s great victories, but in the silence of his personal despair.”

In fact, those are the very last words of Campbell’s classic book—which was published in 1949.

To be clear: “The modern hero” is YOU.

Let’s live, as Nietzsche says, as if today’s the day.

Because, quite simply, it is.

Here’s to remembering that the good life is one hero’s journey after another as we conquer our dragons, transform our consciousness and give our gifts in greatest service to the world.

P.S.Check out our other Notes on Campbell’s work including A Joseph Campbell Companion, Pathways to Bliss, and The Power of Myth.

And, of course, check out the documentary Pat Solomon created (after reading some of those Notes!) that I happen to be in (alongside Deepak Chopra, Laird Hamilton, Sir Ken Robinson and others) called Finding Joe for more. (Trailer here. Free full movie on YouTube here.)

P.P.S. Check out our Notes on Richard Rohr’s Falling Upward as well. He integrates Joseph Campbell’s wisdom into our modern lives and emphasizes the importance of the “trips to hell” to guide us upward in our journey to activate our Heroic potential.

Rohr tells us: “Holding our inner blueprint, which is a good description for our soul, and returning it humbly to the world and to God by love and service is indeed of ultimate concern. Each thing and every person must act out its nature fully, at whatever cost. It is our life’s purpose, and the deepest meaning of ‘natural law.’ We are here to give back fully and freely what was first given to us—but now writ personally—by us! It is probably the most courageous and free act we will ever perform—and it takes both halves of our life to do it fully. The first half of life is discovering the script, and the second half is actually writing it and owning it.

So get ready for a great adventure, the one you were really born for. If we never get to our little bit of heaven, our life does not make much sense, and we have created our own ‘hell.’ So get ready for some new freedom, some dangerous permission, some hope from nowhere, some unexpected happiness, some stumbling stones, some radical grace, and some new and pressing responsibility for yourself and for our suffering world.”

Hell is not punishment. It’s training.
Shunryu Suzuki
To embrace what we fear. To work through it. Is there a more powerful experience in life? This is, indeed, the hero’s journey.
George Mumford
Plato said that a great mind is a grateful mind. To unlock the greatness within, it’s vital that we’re grateful.
George Mumford

Releasing the Masterpiece

“You may be familiar with what Michelangelo said about his approach to sculpting. He didn’t actually create statues for which he is famous; rather, he ‘released’ them from the stone in which he worked. His process stripped away, laid bare. That is the process we all go through to unlock. We remove the extraneous, the layering of our conditioning and defenses, and the ways that we have been untrue to who we really are until we find what is authentic within us—an authenticity that is always there, waiting to be revealed.

I call this greatness inside of us the masterpiece within. We might also think of it as our essence. The people we most admire, who are accomplished, masters at what they do, are in touch with this essence.

But everybody has that masterpiece within them. We need to uncover it. The degree to which we can see it and let it express itself is going to be reflected in the quality of our lives. The masterpiece within is ours and for no one else. It is always unique. There’s only one; only one you.”

That’s from a chapter called “Uncovering the Masterpiece Within.”

That Michelangelo story of “releasing” the statue from the stone in which it was held reminds me of the Golden Buddha story that kicks off Finding Joe that we’ve discussed many times. (And... Check out this +1 and this +1 as well for more...)

The quick recap...

Once upon a time, in a land far away, a huge golden Buddha statue was covered in mud and stucco glass to protect it from an invading army. The trick worked. The invading army ignored the priceless statue.

But... The trick worked TOO well. When the invading army left, no one remembered that the statue was gold. Centuries pass.

Then... One day... The statue is being moved and gets chipped. A bit of the gold underneath shines through. As they chip away some more they realize that the 10-foot “mud” statue is actually 5.5 TONS of nearly pure gold. It’s worth something like $250 million today.

Moral of the story: YOU ARE PURE GOLD! We just need to chip away at what’s in the way.

George talks about the hard work of chipping away at what gets in the way. How did George help his players unlock their greatness?

He tells us: “I introduced them to the concept of being a spiritual warrior, explaining how that involved the conquest of the ego, the small self. You compete against your previous best self; the opponent is secondary. And I stressed the necessity of struggle and needing to get comfortable being uncomfortable. One side of the coin is freedom and potential; the other is uncertainty and anxiety. The Danish existential philosopher Søren Kierkegaard called it ‘the alarming possibility of being able.’ Anxiety must be accepted and fully experienced. As former poet laureate Robert Frost said, ‘The best way out is always through.’ As spiritual warriors, we have to train ourselves to overcome the internal obstacles and difficulties that stand in the way of allowing our latent abilities to express themselves. That is what unlocking is all about.”

He also tells us: “No struggle, no swag. That could be the motto for everything we do in life. Without struggle, we don’t grow. Without something to push against, we don’t become stronger. It’s not just a matter of physical strength either. It’s the same for emotional resilience and wisdom. Nothing is worth anything if it’s easy and effortless. It doesn’t mean anything if you don’t pay for it in sweat and blood (literal or metaphorical).”

Here’s to doing the hard work of uncovering the masterpiece within! Practically speaking... What’s one thing you KNOW you could do TODAY to chip away at what’s getting in the way of your divine radiance shining brightly?

For me, prayer and meditation overlap, but meditation is really about attunement, just letting the spirit flow through me. Prayer has more to do with asking myself to come into alignment with divine will.
George Mumford
Impossible is just a big word thrown around by small men who find it easier to live in the world they’ve been given than to explore the power they have to change it. Impossible is not a declaration. It’s a dare. Impossible is potential. Impossible is temporary. Impossible is nothing.
Muhammad Ali

No Days Off

“MJ never took a day off. Not one. He was always connected to spirit, though he didn’t need to go to church to accomplish that. Spirit was already inside him. He had an attitude and philosophy about life that saw him as earning everything. He wasn’t asking anybody to give him anything. He practiced with the same level of intensity and competitive fire with which he played. He was the best player in the league, maybe the greatest of all time. But he was always working. We can all learn from that kind of relentless drive and consistency of effort about the nature of pure performance: it comes with total commitment and grueling work. Even at MJ’s level: no struggle, no swag.

MJ practiced the way he played because it all mattered equally to him. When he took the court, opponents knew they were in trouble. He was going to be a problem. It didn’t matter who he was up against. There was nothing casual about him. That’s just the way he was.”

That’s from a chapter in which George juxtaposes “peak” performance and “pure” performance.

Peak performance implies you’ve hit an ultimate-best. George tells us that’s never the case. He tells us that the more consistently we show up in “pure” performance, the higher and higher our “peaks” become.

How do we UNLOCK that potential?

Via a “relentless drive and consistency of effort” with “total commitment and grueling work.”

As I read that, I thought of the Note I created yesterday on a book written by *another* one of Michael Jordan’s coaches. While George was helping MJ and his Bulls cultivate more mindfulness on the court, Tim Grover was building Jordan’s body and mental toughness.

Grover wrote Relentless and another book called Winning.

In Winning (which was the Note I worked on yesterday), he tells us there’s a big difference between trying to be the best and trying to be the best EVER.

I just got goosebumps typing that and rereading this line from Winning: “Everything I’ve done with my clients has been the result of helping them close the gap between being the best, and being the best ever. Big difference between those two.”

THAT makes me think of Ben Bergeron’s wisdom from Chasing Excellence.

Ben is one of the all-time great CrossFit coaches. In his great book, he walks us through the 12 character traits of a champion. The first character trait is COMMITMENT. The best are ABSOLUTELY committed to BEING the ABSOLUTE BEST.

Bergeron tells us that most people don’t have that level of commitment. Most people have“some sort of skill set and the semblance of drive; they *want* to be good, but when faced with the work required to be great, they shrug and tell themselves, ‘Meh, I’m good enough.’”

Josh Waitzkin says the EXACT same thing in The Art of Learning.

He tells us: “One thing I have learned as a competitor is that there is a clear distinction between what it takes to be decent, what it takes to be good, what it takes to be great and what it takes to be among the best.”

How about YOU?

How’s YOUR commitment?

Are you ALL IN and ready to pay the price to be your absolute, most Heroic best or are you kinda sorta, “Meh...” good enough?

Of course, the choice is yours. But remember Maslow’s admonition that we ALL *ALWAYS* have “capacities clamoring to be used” and that “What one CAN be, one MUST be!”

And, this Maslow wisdom always wakes me up: “If you deliberately plan on being less than you are capable of being, then I warn you that you’ll be unhappy for the rest of your life.”

Here’s to UNLOCKING your greatness.

Go ALL IN.

Today.

P.S. Speaking of no days off, how about this wisdom from Michael Phelps—the most decorated Olympian in history...

btw. I just Googled it to confirm Michael Phelps has won more medals than anyone. Yep. He has won 28 medals overall—which, apparently, is more than 161 COUNTRIES!

In No Limits, he tells us: “Bob’s coaching philosophy can be distilled as follows: Set your goals high. Work conscientiously, every day, to achieve them.

Among the many authors Bob has read, he likes to cite the motivational speaker Earl Nightingale, who survived the attack on Pearl Harbor on the USS Arizona, then went on to a career in broadcasting. The way Bob tells it, Nightingale’s work revealed the one thing that’s common to all successful people: They make a habit of doing things that unsuccessful people don’t like to do.

There are plenty of people with some amount of talent. Are you willing to go farther, work harder, be more committed and dedicated than anyone else?

If others were inclined to take Sunday off, well, that just meant we might be one-seventh better.

For five years, from 1998 to 2003, we did not believe in days off. I had one because of a snowstorm, two more due to the removal of wisdom teeth. Christmas? See you at the pool. Thanksgiving? Pool. Birthdays? Pool. Sponsor obligations? Work them out around practice time.”

And... THAT reminds me of Arnold Schwarzenegger.

In Be Useful he tells us that, in his quest to become THE greatest bodybuilder ever, he trained for FIVE hours PER DAY for FIFTEEN YEARS. At his peak, he was moving FORTY THOUSAND POUNDS OF WEIGHT PER WORKOUT.

Here’s how he puts it: “If the work of being great or achieving something special hasn’t hurt or cost you anything, or at least made you uncomfortable, then I’m sorry to be the one to tell you, but you’re not working hard enough. You’re not sacrificing all that could be sacrificed in order to be all that you could become.”

He also says: “Don’t be a lazy f*ck. Do the work. The only time you are allowed to use the phrase ‘I took care of it’ is when it is done. Completely.”

And: “Granted, I am a lunatic. I don’t do anything like a normal person. I don’t have normal dreams. My risk tolerance for big goals and new challenges is sky high. Everything I do, I do big.”

Martial arts master Bruce Lee said: ‘I fear not the man who has practiced 10,000 kicks once, but I fear the man who has practiced one kick 10,000 times.
George Mumford
The function of freedom is to free someone else.
Toni Morrison
I realized that slow was smooth and smooth is fast, as I would come to teach athletes.
George Mumford

The Ultimate Quest

“‘People sometimes say I’m ‘locked in,’ but that’s not it,’ Kobe said, referring to the times when he’d been in flow or in the zone and had performed at a particularly high level. ‘When you’re there, it’s something that’s free and easy. It’s not about being ‘locked.’ It’s about being loose.’

‘That’s right,’ I said. ‘It’s really about unlocking. It should feel perfectly natural and unencumbered. It’s about just being. Just doing. The way a river flows.’

‘Or the mamba moves!’

How I miss that cat. There will never be another like him. The rabbis say that when a person dies, a whole world dies with them. What a world Kobe built in his short, intense life.

Kobe’s death is a great example of the Buddha’s fundamental teaching of impermanence—that everything changes, that nothing is here to stay. Kobe’s death added urgency to my desire to help people unlock and access the divinity inside them. Until we do that, it’s impossible to recognize it in others. And that is why it’s so important that we find it in ourselves.

That is my definition of success.”

Those are the final words of the book.

The ultimate Heroic quest? The Hero becomes a Guide. It’s time to UNLOCK the best, most Heroic versions of ourselves so we can help others do the same so we can change the world, one person at a time, together, starting with you and me, TODAY.

Day 1. All in. LET’S GO, HERO!!

No struggle, no swag. That could be the motto for everything we do in life. Without struggle, we don’t grow. Without something to push against, we don’t become stronger. It’s not just a matter of physical strength either. It’s the same for emotional resilience and wisdom. Nothing is worth anything if it’s easy and effortless. It doesn’t mean anything if you don’t pay for it in sweat and blood (literal or metaphorical).
George Mumford

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George Mumford

Newton-based mindfulness teacher for athletes