What Doesn't Kill Us by Stephen Joseph #2305

Today’s book: What Doesn’t Kill Us: The New Psychology of Posttraumatic Growth by Stephen Joseph—a paradigm-shifting look at how suffering doesn’t just break us—but can become a catalyst for deeper strength, meaning, and growth.

Here’s your 1-minute summary:

• Posttraumatic growth is real. Many people don’t just recover—they transform. Growth comes in five domains: strength, new possibilities, relationships, appreciation, and spiritual change.

• Stress is an engine, not just damage. Stephen argues that the pain and disruption of trauma can ignite processes that rebuild—and even improve—our lives.

• The “shattered vase” metaphor matters. When life breaks you, you don’t glue the broken pieces back exactly—you rearrange them into a new, stronger form.

• Resilience requires meaning-making. Growth doesn’t happen by accident—you actively integrate your suffering into a story that points toward purpose.

• Use the THRIVE model. Stephen outlines steps—Taking stock, Harvesting hope, Re-authoring, Identifying change, Valuing change, Expressing it through action—to turn adversity into new life.

Trauma is not your destiny—it’s your doorway. What one step will you take today to re-author your story and claim your growth?

What Doesn’t Kill Us—phenomenal book. Post traumatic stress, post traumatic growth; check out the Notes for the science on how to make the shift.